Hi,
I have found quite a lot of people in Orkut community and blogs! Who call themselves ranging from lucky-less, suicide, etc! If you are one, this is for you! I know friend life sucks @ times and pretty difficult to walk through if it is really a journey! If you are depressed you would have tried books, friends, etc (and hopefully medicine if you are a serious case) I knew they would have turned sour and senseless, the favorite TV programs or your favorite book are pure torture than anything else!
What am I going to tell you new?
Friend, I’m not going to tell you read good books and be happy! To be honest good books no matter how good it is, will be of little use when we are stuck, and in fact it will have reverse effect, putting additional pressures on you to be good, great as any self-help book tells on its back cover. My first suggestion discard all the books! really even your favorite. This is first step that will give peace of mind, no additional pressure or responsibility to finish your 20th uncompleted self-help book!
Next, Forget Yourself !
Really, live for others even it is going to be for your parents, sister, brother, neighbor, poor people, dog!!, cat!! whoever you think deserve your love! just love them! think what you are going to gift them (even it is going to be in future) after all they deserved “your” love, aren’t you are special and such unique and precious gift that they should be truly rewarded to gained your Love. If you don’t find anyone check my next step!
What else?
I know you are born with some talents even your favorite enemy(!) don’t have! Friend, no one ever born with all talents and luck! in the same vein if you are unlucky that tell you you were somehow talented in some department either you have found what it is or not yet. Tap it, if it is sleeping, raise it. Your talent can be as simple as you got good presence people take a look at wherever you walk or talk, or you can communicate well, you got damn creativity, you can program computers well, etc…once you found your strength develop it deeper, while you are sharpening your strength, at times even in the middle of the process, you will be presented with opportunity requiring exactly the same skill as you are honing now!
Do you have it?
Do you like your country , are you brave, can you reform your society? can you plunge yourself into politics? these are further options, if you failed to recognize your strength in your previous step but found lots of mishaps in Govt. or Society. That requires your skill, will and strength so you correct as you feel it should be.
What is all for?
Love. Life is lived for recognition and importance. Recognition and importance are achieved because implicitly it tell you so many people are Loving you and you are Loved. Easiest way to achieve this is collect/accumulate love, at every chance you get, be delighted, happy and thankful and also enjoy the whole stuff when you are connected with another person or being like when you smiling at another person or when you talking with someone you know already, etc. After all “LOVE IS LIFE” “LOVE IS ALL”.
Cheers.
With Lots of LOVE,
Santhosh R.